i feel like people are hating the seme but both the seme and the uke were bad at communicating with each other. as a people pleaser i also don't want to burden others and i genuinely don't know how to act with another people pleaser so i think it was pretty realistic how their personalities were portrayed. seme has a hard time reading expressions and doesn't want to assume which led to him seeming like a jerk for not caring about uke. meanwhile uke doesn't want to burden the seme by asking for reassurance because seme is hard to read which makes them have no way of seeing their real thoughts because they legit cannot communicate because of their own fears. i really liked it !!!
i feel like people are hating the seme but both the seme and the uke were bad at communicating with each other. as a people pleaser i also don't want to burden others and i genuinely don't know how to act with another people pleaser so i think it was pretty realistic how their personalities were portrayed. seme has a hard time reading expressions and doesn't want to assume which led to him seeming like a jerk for not caring about uke. meanwhile uke doesn't want to burden the seme by asking for reassurance because seme is hard to read which makes them have no way of seeing their real thoughts because they legit cannot communicate because of their own fears. i really liked it !!!