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so basically i have a crush on this girl at my school and we just started becoming friends...

roro August 6, 2026 5:17 pm

so basically i have a crush on this girl at my school and we just started becoming friends last year but ive always noticed her. i cant stop thinking about her but ik she'll never look at me that way cause she told me herself she could never imagine herself getting romantically involved with a girl. this is my last school year should i make a move. everyone here is so conservative so somehow everyone finds out i could get in big trouble for liking a girl

Responses
    Willow August 6, 2026 5:29 pm

    Girl don't do it
    It's not worth it
    I know it feels like a lot, but just push through and you'll eventually grow apart in a couple of years. Crushing on a straight girl is just going to drain you. Even if she agrees to go out with you out of curiosity, it's not going to end well.
    Maybe you'll meet her again in the distant future AFTER you've moved on, and then you can be friends again

    yaz August 6, 2026 6:03 pm

    If you have a low pain tolerance, you shouldn't do it. It might feel nice at first, but later you'll realize you've gotten yourself into trouble, and it'll be a responsibility you'll have to bear alone u.u (because I doubt she'll support you with true love like a partner should)

    roro August 6, 2026 6:17 pm
    Girl don't do itIt's not worth itI know it feels like a lot, but just push through and you'll eventually grow apart in a couple of years. Crushing on a straight girl is just going to drain you. Even if she agre... Willow

    yeah i know but i barely have 6 months of school left. what if i told her how i feel on the last day of
    school and she liked me back too. she said she would try having sex with a girl atp im so desperate to be something special to her. she's really popular with guys and has had a few bfs before

    Willow August 6, 2026 6:36 pm
    yeah i know but i barely have 6 months of school left. what if i told her how i feel on the last day ofschool and she liked me back too. she said she would try having sex with a girl atp im so desperate to be s... roro

    Babe, we've all been there.
    She might be curious now, but even if she is in fact queer, she's gonna need a lot of time to discover herself before she can be in a relationship. If I were you, I'd let our time together stay a happy memory.