I get it. I really do. But you have to understand that for nobles and royalty, it comes with the territory. It's annoying but that's just how most nobles and royalty are. That's just how she's been raised to behave. I hate it but it's understandable. On top of that, there is no need to say that because they don't need to make unnecessary enemies. Helping her succeed is only beneficial.

sigh... I have little patience for these sort of uppity bitchy characters that act like the world revolves around them and have ZERO ability to actually look at the reality around them or the position they are in. And confusion for all the people around her that just let it all slide and roll w/ it "let's be sure to give her a warm welcome"... I wouldn't last long.. I'd be like "if you can't get your head out of your ass, there's the pier. you can start swimming back while riding your high horse that you can't get off of."