The way I was right LOL None of them handled the shit btwn woojin and his brother well AT ALL Clocked it as all of em were managing the situation btwn em till it blew up in their faces and they had to have hard conversations and make hard decisions and woojin ended up being the one to once again take on the mantle of maturity and responsibility coz his brother has fully embraced being a maladjusted adult. Classic middle child syndrome too. Tbvfh I do blame the parents for how shit turned out coz they are ultimately responsible for this nonsense. Sure they tried their best (〜￣△￣)〜 but also not really. It doesn’t change the fact that woojin was abandoned regardless of it he was capable of being responsible for himself or not. He was a child himself and at a pivotal point in his life where he was coming to terms with who he was publicly with ppl he thought he could count on and his reward was acceptance from his parents which was great and all but completely ruined by they being more concerned with maintaining fake peace and a violently homophobic brother. He wasn’t even allowed to go back in and get his shit himself like yo there’s lvls to the fuckery he was subjected to fr. It’s really a tale as old as time of family’s essentially abandoning the responsible child for the problem child coz that’s easier to manage than actually dealing with the problem which would involve them having to staunchly choose a side instead of this halfway bullshit they on but we mewv lol. Let’s praise sky daddy for hoin and his fam for being a safe space for woojin thru all this nonsense. Glad he got away from it all atleast even though he was still guilt tripped into attending his aint shit brothers wedding. Wats up with that fr??? Also ion like the vibes from the wife tbh. She’s suspicious to me rn but that’s also mostly coz ion trust overly friendly ppl especially at a first meeting. But I might also be viewing things thru woojins discomfort too so lol
The way I was right LOL
None of them handled the shit btwn woojin and his brother well AT ALL
Clocked it as all of em were managing the situation btwn em till it blew up in their faces and they had to have hard conversations and make hard decisions and woojin ended up being the one to once again take on the mantle of maturity and responsibility coz his brother has fully embraced being a maladjusted adult. Classic middle child syndrome too.
Tbvfh I do blame the parents for how shit turned out coz they are ultimately responsible for this nonsense. Sure they tried their best (〜￣△￣)〜 but also not really. It doesn’t change the fact that woojin was abandoned regardless of it he was capable of being responsible for himself or not. He was a child himself and at a pivotal point in his life where he was coming to terms with who he was publicly with ppl he thought he could count on and his reward was acceptance from his parents which was great and all but completely ruined by they being more concerned with maintaining fake peace and a violently homophobic brother. He wasn’t even allowed to go back in and get his shit himself like yo there’s lvls to the fuckery he was subjected to fr. It’s really a tale as old as time of family’s essentially abandoning the responsible child for the problem child coz that’s easier to manage than actually dealing with the problem which would involve them having to staunchly choose a side instead of this halfway bullshit they on but we mewv lol. Let’s praise sky daddy for hoin and his fam for being a safe space for woojin thru all this nonsense.
Glad he got away from it all atleast even though he was still guilt tripped into attending his aint shit brothers wedding.
Wats up with that fr???
Also ion like the vibes from the wife tbh. She’s suspicious to me rn but that’s also mostly coz ion trust overly friendly ppl especially at a first meeting. But I might also be viewing things thru woojins discomfort too so lol