They don't own her, and she doesn't owe them anything. Simple as that. Yes, she raised them, they should be thankful for that, not use it as justification to demand more.
Do I understand why they went after her? Yes. Does that excuse them for coming after someone who clearly doesn't want to be found and invade her personal life? No. Does she owe them an explanation? No. While it might be nice, it also unfortunately isn't any of their business if she doesn't want it to be.
Harsh truth: Just because you care about someone doesn't give you the rights to them, their information, their life or their feelings.
They don't own her, and she doesn't owe them anything. Simple as that. Yes, she raised them, they should be thankful for that, not use it as justification to demand more.
Do I understand why they went after her? Yes.
Does that excuse them for coming after someone who clearly doesn't want to be found and invade her personal life? No.
Does she owe them an explanation? No. While it might be nice, it also unfortunately isn't any of their business if she doesn't want it to be.
Harsh truth:
Just because you care about someone doesn't give you the rights to them, their information, their life or their feelings.