I can’t stand he’s going to the wedding “being forced” my ass. I hate that “but we’re still family” shit because the homophobes never think about that but when you decide to put yourself first THEN it comes in. I hate this trope so fucking bad because I’ve experienced shit like this from family my entire life and especially the “I’m such a horrible mother” thing way to make it about yourself and not the actual person doing it, or when ppl don’t see it as a big deal bc they’ll NEVER understand how it feels it nearly kills you. I hope he doesn’t forgive him I’m serious because that type of trauma stays with you for life. Before the “it’s a story” ppl come in some of us are ACTUALLY gay so yeah it's personal idgaf I’m being over the top
I can’t stand he’s going to the wedding “being forced” my ass. I hate that “but we’re still family” shit because the homophobes never think about that but when you decide to put yourself first THEN it comes in. I hate this trope so fucking bad because I’ve experienced shit like this from family my entire life and especially the “I’m such a horrible mother” thing way to make it about yourself and not the actual person doing it, or when ppl don’t see it as a big deal bc they’ll NEVER understand how it feels it nearly kills you. I hope he doesn’t forgive him I’m serious because that type of trauma stays with you for life. Before the “it’s a story” ppl come in some of us are ACTUALLY gay so yeah it's personal idgaf I’m being over the top