If he allows himself to do that, he's capable of much worse.
Do you want to sue him? Not necessarily to gain anything, but to give other potential victims the courage to speak out.
I'm mortified, are you guys okay?!
Hope you guys slowly distance yourselves from such a creepy individual
I don't want to sue him. This is the first time I've experienced something like this, and he doesn't know about it. He's been like a friend to me for a very long time, and for some reason, I don't want to lose him.
We are okay. We are a 4 people friend group Me Her Him and another dude. The other dude know hers part of the story. If he knew mine, idk what he would do to him. Cuz Im the youngest in the friend group
your friendship shouldn't be his excuse to SA you, and expect to be forgiven.
Idk how long ago that was, but you know him better than us, if you think he feels no remorse at all, he could have done worse, and I hope you'll try to find out if he actually did.
At least talk it out with him, does he regret it, did he change ?
This was a year ago. Me and my friend (the girl) might meet up at her place to have drinks and talk about this topic more. We need to decide what to do.
Yeah that ain't going well, either way I hope you distance yourself, or at least have a conversation about it. Cuz this type of behavior is major red flag of it escalating to more heinous behaviours
maybe talk about it before the drinks :')
also if he says he was just joking, or that he wasn't serious, or that he misinterpreted your behavior, PLEASE don't believe him. Men know what they do, and they know when we are not interested. They just chose to ignore the signals
Ypu know what HE SAID EXACTLY THAT TO HER AFTER HE KISSDD HER ı was just joking
Thank you both for hearing me out.
I know Its not like related with this concept of the site but here I go
Today I was at a friends house who is a girl. We both realized that were were SA'ed by the same person. That person is our childhood friend for like 20 years. All the memories, all the moments came to my mind when she told me her moments with him. I feel disgusted. Don't imagine like and stuff He kissed my friend when she was drunk. Touched her butt cheeks and shit. He "accidently" placed his hand on my . and when I was at his place for breakfast we were just wrestling like how sibling do. He put my legs up to my shoulders and I felt his "forg"(if you get that reference) and when we were chatting at the same day he suddenly asked me "Hey do you mastrb8?" I was dumbfounded. I said "I mean yea everybody does"
I feel weird. She,my friend, feels weird. We don't know what to do.