Do people not know how BDSM really works omg. As someone whos in the BDSM community everyone has their own ways for a D/S relationship. Plays, Punishment etc. When a sub knows they fucked up big time, they'll take wtv punishment the top gives them. (Yes I myself have gotten punishment too) but that doesn't mean he doesn't love me any less.
And they have a save word, which is "i love you". Whenever the bottom feels he cant go on with a play he'll say it.
Every relationship, no matter if they are BDSM or not it will always go through rough times, and that how things works.
Do people not know how BDSM really works omg. As someone whos in the BDSM community everyone has their own ways for a D/S relationship. Plays, Punishment etc. When a sub knows they fucked up big time, they'll take wtv punishment the top gives them. (Yes I myself have gotten punishment too) but that doesn't mean he doesn't love me any less.
And they have a save word, which is "i love you". Whenever the bottom feels he cant go on with a play he'll say it.
Every relationship, no matter if they are BDSM or not it will always go through rough times, and that how things works.