I'm gonna preface by saying I don't defend yahwi cz I know some of you will think I am by what I'm about to say. Cain and jooin were full of shit too. Cain was a pathological lair and didn't care about being honest until it was basically over. All of a sudden he wanted to be friends when he'd lied his way into jooins life. I remember when people used to defend his lies as necessary in protecting Jooin fast forward Jooin tells this man to his face after months together "I don't know you". Basically told Cain I can't love a man who hasn't been honest about who he is. Valid points on that one. Reminds me of the new Spiderman movie ifykyk.
Jooin too, don't get the started about that shitty fucker. People compare him to Ian from wetsand but they ain't the same cz Ian has the balls to admit he ain't shit. The creator of wetsand made it clear that Ian was the worst of the three and by the end of the story you understand why. Jooin pretends that he don't like yahwi for more than half of the series and only has reactions when yahwi is also feeling emotionally drained from how much the relationship is turning him psycho. That man liked seeing both of these men push themselves for him and only when Ryan and his mom told him his actions are hurtful does he start to think he ain't the victim he thinks he is. And the narrative actively centres him as a victim to nearly the end. Even when he implicitly admits wrong doing there is never accountability for his participation in bullshit. Jooin just says at the time he hadn't experienced all that and some how that made it all okay.
Some hypocrisy I've seen in this fandom for years is acting like Cain was a saint. Please call him a rapist too. Rape isn't just agressive shit it's also knowing full well someone is not emotionally or mentally capable of consent and using that as an opportunity to fuck them. His sex with jooin was disgusting and weird. Jooin is straight up crying over what just happened, THE SLAP, and all this bitch can think about is how he's finally had sex with him. That the sex had finally brought them closer. He admits that he knows what he is doing is wrong but he also says he won't apologise for it. Jooin was not in a proper emotional or mental state to consent to that. And as the story progresses we see why it never happened again cz jooin didn't want to have sex with Cain again after that. The whole situation was opportunistic ash and I'll never be convinced that it was romantic. In fact I believe that was the beginning of the end of their relationship. Even the Ferris wheel ride afterwards jooin rejected Cain's hand which spoke volumes about the fact that jooin didn't want this man romantically. Gonna give jooin his roses for rejecting Cain cz that was one of rawest scenes we got from this mid series. He finally had the balls to tell Cain he can't love him beyond friendship and stopped pretending anything Cain did would change his mind.
I'm gonna preface by saying I don't defend yahwi cz I know some of you will think I am by what I'm about to say. Cain and jooin were full of shit too. Cain was a pathological lair and didn't care about being honest until it was basically over. All of a sudden he wanted to be friends when he'd lied his way into jooins life. I remember when people used to defend his lies as necessary in protecting Jooin fast forward Jooin tells this man to his face after months together "I don't know you". Basically told Cain I can't love a man who hasn't been honest about who he is. Valid points on that one. Reminds me of the new Spiderman movie ifykyk.
Jooin too, don't get the started about that shitty fucker. People compare him to Ian from wetsand but they ain't the same cz Ian has the balls to admit he ain't shit. The creator of wetsand made it clear that Ian was the worst of the three and by the end of the story you understand why. Jooin pretends that he don't like yahwi for more than half of the series and only has reactions when yahwi is also feeling emotionally drained from how much the relationship is turning him psycho. That man liked seeing both of these men push themselves for him and only when Ryan and his mom told him his actions are hurtful does he start to think he ain't the victim he thinks he is. And the narrative actively centres him as a victim to nearly the end. Even when he implicitly admits wrong doing there is never accountability for his participation in bullshit. Jooin just says at the time he hadn't experienced all that and some how that made it all okay.
Some hypocrisy I've seen in this fandom for years is acting like Cain was a saint. Please call him a rapist too. Rape isn't just agressive shit it's also knowing full well someone is not emotionally or mentally capable of consent and using that as an opportunity to fuck them. His sex with jooin was disgusting and weird. Jooin is straight up crying over what just happened, THE SLAP, and all this bitch can think about is how he's finally had sex with him. That the sex had finally brought them closer. He admits that he knows what he is doing is wrong but he also says he won't apologise for it. Jooin was not in a proper emotional or mental state to consent to that. And as the story progresses we see why it never happened again cz jooin didn't want to have sex with Cain again after that. The whole situation was opportunistic ash and I'll never be convinced that it was romantic. In fact I believe that was the beginning of the end of their relationship. Even the Ferris wheel ride afterwards jooin rejected Cain's hand which spoke volumes about the fact that jooin didn't want this man romantically. Gonna give jooin his roses for rejecting Cain cz that was one of rawest scenes we got from this mid series. He finally had the balls to tell Cain he can't love him beyond friendship and stopped pretending anything Cain did would change his mind.