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gosh beautifully said, I'm fully with you. people seem to just not acknowledge or directly ignore that Mokyeon is very traumatized and very damaged. His illness is not a justification, but a reason for his actions, and that doesn't make him a bad person per se, people aren't black and white. And also Nanjo was never at fault here... can't grasp how people think he is.
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Here's my take on this, I have a lot of people in my life that is svicidal and tends to s3lf hurt a lot, also this is my psychology enthusiast @ss speaking, so, PAIN isn't the same for everyone, and Mokyeon was strong enough to survive this long after all the things that has happen in his life, but that doesn't mean everyone should cater or be considerate of him, or tolerate his bad doings just because he cvt himself, (for example Nanjo), I'm also disappointed and sad in what happened to Mokyeon, but let's face it, Nanjo was hurt too, Nanjo was wronged, and Nanjo doesn't know what Mokyeon is going through or who Mokyeon really is, if you know what I mean. They are both hurt, and I hate that people keep on saying Nanjo this, Nanjo that just because Mokyeon did this, have y'all forgot that Mokyeon forced Nanjo into this situation? Have y'all forgotten that Nanjo was in love with Mokyeon's friend? He was a victim and what gave you the right to blame the victim, his reactions, his actions, they are all valid, they're all humane.
Who is to blame?
No one, Mokyeon obviously is not in the right state of mind, he needs help and he can't love Nanjo right in this state. He should take care of himself first, 'cause he can't love someone if he can't love himself kindly. As stated by him "figures, like h3ll would give me what I want that easily" it only shows how hopeless he is in life, and it's unhealthy that Nanjo was dragged into this mess, he has enough problems on his plate and Mokyeon added himself like a cherry on top.
Yes, I was pissed that Nanjo was not letting Mokyeon talk, and explain himself but we can't blame him for not facing Mokyeon, he has a growing love for the man and he was hurt by what he did, that's purely human feelings.
Yes, what Mokyeon did was unacceptable but he clang to the thought of someone finally loving him, he was a neglected child, he was a fragile soul, do you think we think the same, we make decisions the same way like others, no.