Fucking hell

fr like it is that deep

its so disappointing to see that ‘purity culture’ is still visible in media like this

And it’s disappointing that bottoms are still expected to be “virgins” instead of letting them whore around like tops do.

I don’t care if the Tops sleep around, as long as bottoms are allowed to do the same.

I don’t care about this “purity” shit, I care more about representation of diverse bottoms in relationships.

Not all bottoms are virgins.

It’s really sad and outdated…
I’d love to see power bottoms, confident bottoms, experienced bottoms in more popular works

When I say “experienced”, I don’t mean them being raped by other men… like in Pearl Boy.
I mean, bottoms choosing to sleep around…
To experiment, all that shit…

YES exactly, im so sick and tired of some people who think and expect the top to be the one more “experienced” in the relationship and think the bottom is all innocent and pure or sum shi like that, its so frustrating to constantly see this fuckass stereotype

literally!! and the way its actually the bottoms who are more expected to be experienced because taking it up the ass is fucking hard especially if ur a guy we definitely need more rep of experienced bottoms

i hate it when they say some bottoms are ‘experienced’ because they got raped like they didn’t choose to get raped omg that’s why i haven’t read pearl boy yet too

Literally Queen
I have friends who are confident bottoms (so proud).
It’s so annoying for these authors to always portray bottoms as virgins and consider it “pure”.

Experienced bottoms exist, hello??

Omgosh Queen honestly slay
I’m glad I found you and @pvskiae

Comrades
I’m often criticized for my opinions against representation of experienced bottoms.
I love AND live for the virgin girlies (such as myself), but experienced bottoms are sooo HOT.

aww why would they criticise you for wanting more rep of experienced bottoms thats just insane

me too like i think the lack of diversity and pushing the same models and stereotypes in bls is genuinely ruinining everything in the industry, bruh like its all the same slop nowadays , thats why i think its always so easy for people to predict the story’s plot, characters tropes or how will they act in the future and such, not only the lack of diversity in bls is pushing harmful stereotypes and social norms but also it makes the stories feel boring and repetitive

I agree. They make it seem as if bottoms are more attractive if they’re virgins.
This ridiculous heteronormative ideals already exists among straight manwhas where female leads are often— if not always, portrayed as virgins, while the Male Lead are usually fuckboys who change partners like changing underwear.

And it’s always the same fucking line “I’ve never enjoyed sex with anyone except you” bruh, like that bullshit is flattering at all, gross.

Authors nowadays— especially back then, are so prejudiced about strong and independent bottoms who enjoy pleasure.
It’s obvious that they’re tainted by the conservative stigma about the “woman in the relationship” being untouched. While they find experiences Tops to be more “manly, all the while calling experienced Bottoms as “sluts”.