Asphyxiation play has to be handled with extreme care since you might actually end up unaliving your partner. Rule #1: Pressure must be applied on the sides of the neck. If you press on the front you might break the trachea and end up in jail.
Rule #2: Never. NEVER. Wait till your partner passes out for you to let go. You’re cutting both blood and air supply for a little thrill, not to leave them with sequelae.
Rule #3 (and not less important): GET. A FUCKING. SAFE WORD. Believe it or not, the dom can say it as well. If you’re a dom and are not comfortable with how the play is going, just say the word. You’ll avoid putting yourself and your partner at risk.
Finally please inform yourself. Going in blindly is the worst mistake you could make in any play, so do your research. No, porn doesn’t count as research.
Asphyxiation play has to be handled with extreme care since you might actually end up unaliving your partner.
Rule #1: Pressure must be applied on the sides of the neck. If you press on the front you might break the trachea and end up in jail.
Rule #2: Never. NEVER. Wait till your partner passes out for you to let go. You’re cutting both blood and air supply for a little thrill, not to leave them with sequelae.
Rule #3 (and not less important): GET. A FUCKING. SAFE WORD. Believe it or not, the dom can say it as well. If you’re a dom and are not comfortable with how the play is going, just say the word. You’ll avoid putting yourself and your partner at risk.
Finally please inform yourself. Going in blindly is the worst mistake you could make in any play, so do your research. No, porn doesn’t count as research.