i don’t think it’s normal to fall for a twelve year old at 24
So non-offending pedophiles are okay and should be accepted is what ur saying? Also, I think it's just you here who thinks falling in love with a child and being extremely attracted to them is ok...
Hey i didn’t say it’s okay! I don’t condone it. Don’t twist my words.
And normal might not have been the best word I used, but falling in love over non conventional stuff happens whether we like it or not. If you have read cases in psychology, some people are just brain wired to like the stuff you and i can’t even imagine but try their damnest to not act on it.
Oh my god bruh you can acknowledge the fact he didn't necessarily choose to be attracted to xinlu when he was a child but don't deny that makes him a pedo!
yea my bad, normal was not the best word i used. my point on that is— it happens. people can be just that crazy liking things they can’t helped with. And particularly for adult liking children, ofc I don’t condone it. Yuri for this particular story, at least didn’t do anything crazy to a child. If anything, might have been something he felt one time at that exact moment then never again.
bruh where did i deny? sure i said that at least yuri didnt show anymore attraction to other children after, but did i outright said he wasnt? read again. The main focus of my og comment was what Yuri did after the drowning event where he “fell in love”
Your initial post literally paints yuri to be innocent, you defending this at all is denial of his pedophilia. Being attracted to ONE child doesn't change the fact you were attracted TO A CHILD
In no way I was painting him innocent but I do have acknowledged that he hasn’t done anything vindicative even if he was attracted to xinlu when he was a child. I did not even deny anything, again, i pointed out that aside from liking a him when he was child, nothing else followed. Yuri is a pedo for specifically liking xinlu when he was a child yes, but i acknowledge that anything beyond that there is Nothing else
I understand people’s sensitivity over this kind of topic but, it’s totally normal to fall in love (to whatever non conventional thing) BUT what you do afterwards define where your moral compass falls. Particularly for Yuri, did he reach out to him after that? tried to make a pass when he was young etc etc? Nope. Did Yuri show any particular sexual attraction to other children? Nope.