random rushed sex is overrated, specially since most people don't really take their time to enjoy sex and rush it, when really you could go at it for much longer. Find someone who takes their time with you and wants to see you enjoy it, not simply wanting to finish. That's not really the end goal. As for masturbating just try to relax and explore what feel right, what works and what doesn't

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