ok to all the gays (and girls, however this specific plan works best with an ex who is living a fake life of pretending to be straight) out there, if you ever find yourself in that horror movie, here’s what you’re gonna do:
step 1: BE HURT AND HEART BROKEN. Make sure you’re VILE ex SEES THIS and is reminded of it often (preferably indirectly after the initial breakdown and for no more than a month). This is crucial, you NEED him to see how much this has destroyed you. DO NOT do any permanent harm/damage to his reputation/body/belongings. We need you seen in the best light possible from him and outsiders (and no legal liabilities)
step 2: FULLY DISAPPEAR. Do not post, Do not contact, make sure all loose ends between you and your ex are severed. The last memory your ex should have of you, is you RUINED. Make sure all access he has to you is cut off.
step 3: HEAL. MOVE ON. Find yourself, LOVE yourself. DO NOT. I REPEAT. DO NOT give into him, he will try to come back, he will try and contact you. Always be, short, dismissive and polite during interactions (this should be the natural response when you do properly heal and move on). No need to make sure he sees, he will.
The reason we do not expose him and exact direct revenge is because why would we blow up the prison of a life he made for himself. My plan for revenge accounts for suffocating guilt that he has no one to blame but himself AND saves you the mental and emotional turmoil.
I feel like i left details out so i will be taking questions :3
or just kill him (⌒▽⌒)
I was just reading manga while crying abt my 6 yr situationship with whom I've been on no contact with for three years and this just struck a nerve lmaooooooooo
i wish exes just disappeared instead of still existing after they hurt u tbh. Was successfully moving on from him last yr but then at the start of 2026 I bumped into him at a mall and I feel like for the next 7 months I've had the thought of him come to me daily the stupid part is we never even dated/ were into eachother, or that's from my perspective. It was kinda like he liked me too early I liked him too late. We were hanging out one day having fun and I wake up the next day and he randomly blocked me out of the blue and refused to explain himself when I asked thru mutuals and it was a whole fiasco for like 4 months straight lmao. I hope he randomly dies or either befriends me again idk he's so hopeless that ion even want him as a boyfriend I js want him back as my friend okay sorry for trauma dumpingn
THAT IS NOT A FRIEND WORTH HAVING. Let yourself think/feel through on what this has done to you and why, GRIEVE IT. Do not bottle up anything for later because it WILL come back and it WILL bite you in the ass. FORGIVE YOURSELF, and let it go. Take it day by day and focus on your life. He is gone but you’re still here!!!!!
the absolute fucking HORROR MOVIE the friend is going through. HOLY SHIT. bro I’m SHAKING.