Like have yall never complimented your friend like "if I/you were x, I'd date you" vibes?? Like I just FEEL IT IN MY BONES that yall were the kind of people who did the "kiss your homies goodnight" joke but like you genuinely wanted to kiss the homie I know emotions are hard but also like it was him trying to compliment a person who felt like they were unloveable and that noone would ever be interested in him. Dude was doing the simple version of "Actually I do think you have qualities that would make you a great boyfriend, whilst I do not want to date you because I am in a happy monogomous relationship with the love of my life, I can recognise that you have qualities which would be desirable to someone who was single"
Like have yall never complimented your friend like "if I/you were x, I'd date you" vibes?? Like I just FEEL IT IN MY BONES that yall were the kind of people who did the "kiss your homies goodnight" joke but like you genuinely wanted to kiss the homie
I know emotions are hard but also like it was him trying to compliment a person who felt like they were unloveable and that noone would ever be interested in him. Dude was doing the simple version of "Actually I do think you have qualities that would make you a great boyfriend, whilst I do not want to date you because I am in a happy monogomous relationship with the love of my life, I can recognise that you have qualities which would be desirable to someone who was single"