Hey spacing is very important, canyoureadthiscomfortablycouldyoureallyhandleconstantlyreadingthiskindoftextonceortwiceiseasybuttheyredatingandheshouldatleastcareenoughtoaddaspacebetween
sure, i get your point. i’m more the type to be able to handle inconveniences like that though. and it’s honestly still not a big enough issue for me to start a fight with a lover…
also i reread the bonus stories and there hasn’t been any instances where jaeyoung actually wrote a message that long without spaces hahaha. he mostly writes likethis withafew wordstgt instead of one big, continuous thing. sangwoo also corrects VERY small things like “wyd?” and even the use of “??” or “!!!!” which is honestly a little too much.
He doesn’t really correct the ”???” Though, he just commented on it in his mind. Also I wouldn’t say Sangwoo started a fight, he just wanted his bf to be more considerate, no? I don’t always care about texting but I for sure see Sangwoo’s point. Be for real, putting a few spaces doesn’t take much time… this has been pissing me off for a long time so I seem very passionate about this, I promise I’m not trying to start a fight TvT
Oh also I know hangeul so I can confirm it is much more annoying in Korean than English
no it’s okay, discussions are important and fun! and we can always agree to disagree. people have diff values and capacities, so if grammar and stuff like that is important to you, that’s your right ~
it’s not something i mind because it’s a very minor inconvenience (for me)
and yes they were both just looking for a compromise from the other, which they did find in end.
so clearly they had more problems than just the typing. i can see both sides bc both of them definitely put in the effort to match the other despite their wildly different lifestyles. it’s good they’re talking about them now and can hopefully find a good balance/compromise.
i will say, i love language and learning about it. grammar, especially in casual texting, is very honestly such a non-issue and i thought it was so stupid that that’s what set off their fight but that’s life! language is man-made and changes constantly, so aside from academic/professional writing, being a perfect writer means jackshit ! the most important part about communication is that your message is conveyed, so i’m definitely team jaeyoung for that one. i can’t even comprehend why anyone would get mad at someone else’s typing mannerisms when it’s so inconsequential and harms no one at all. also, i always love seeing people’s personality bleed into the way they type/speak. trying to change that about somebody else is a no no.
but yeah the typing issue does seem more like a last straw kinda thing and wasn’t actually sangwoo’s main/sole problem. glad they talked it out tho, a good fight is refreshing.