It feels like the narrative is being incredibly dismissive of the fact that his brother and dad sent someone to SA him.
Geon has one of the most extreme portrayals of disorganized attachment (I feel him so bad and it hurts). He is deeply insecure and has spent his entire life surrounded by people who make it nearly impossible for him to develop a secure attachment or maintain a healthy relationship. Hyesung and his family don’t trust him like at all, his friends are awful, and even his boyfriend takes advantage of his vulnerability too (even though he's not that horrible compared to others)
He is also ashamed of himself. He constantly fills his time with distractions so he doesn’t have to confront or process his emotions. The emotional neglect made me sick to my stomach. I think Geon deserves better friends and better family. The author should've focused more on the communication side with his boyfriend rather than making too much dramas around Geon's life. He honestly deserves to feel secured about everything.
It feels like the narrative is being incredibly dismissive of the fact that his brother and dad sent someone to SA him.
Geon has one of the most extreme portrayals of disorganized attachment (I feel him so bad and it hurts). He is deeply insecure and has spent his entire life surrounded by people who make it nearly impossible for him to develop a secure attachment or maintain a healthy relationship. Hyesung and his family don’t trust him like at all, his friends are awful, and even his boyfriend takes advantage of his vulnerability too (even though he's not that horrible compared to others)
He is also ashamed of himself. He constantly fills his time with distractions so he doesn’t have to confront or process his emotions. The emotional neglect made me sick to my stomach. I think Geon deserves better friends and better family. The author should've focused more on the communication side with his boyfriend rather than making too much dramas around Geon's life. He honestly deserves to feel secured about everything.