It feels like this whole situation with the rabbit is just the author's way of showing their mindset towards poly people. It feels like they're saying "other people can do what they want but it's definitely weird and immoral and poly people themselves are creeps with no boundaries who haven't thought things through enough." Wtaf. First of all, the problem they used to "win" the argument is also a problem for monogamous people because you can never predict people's feelings, people's feelings are fluid, and a good friendship can't be ranked against a romantic relationship. These kinds of issues are why communication is so important in ANY relationship. Also, poly people don't just go around and harass people until they decide to be with them, there has to be mutual agreement, boundaries, and relationship building between everyone however works for them. SAME AS WITH A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP. The rabbit is just underdeveloped in his understanding of polyamory, not some immoral asshole. He is definitely a creep though, but not cause he's poly, because he doesn't respect boundaries.
It feels like this whole situation with the rabbit is just the author's way of showing their mindset towards poly people. It feels like they're saying "other people can do what they want but it's definitely weird and immoral and poly people themselves are creeps with no boundaries who haven't thought things through enough." Wtaf. First of all, the problem they used to "win" the argument is also a problem for monogamous people because you can never predict people's feelings, people's feelings are fluid, and a good friendship can't be ranked against a romantic relationship. These kinds of issues are why communication is so important in ANY relationship. Also, poly people don't just go around and harass people until they decide to be with them, there has to be mutual agreement, boundaries, and relationship building between everyone however works for them. SAME AS WITH A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP. The rabbit is just underdeveloped in his understanding of polyamory, not some immoral asshole. He is definitely a creep though, but not cause he's poly, because he doesn't respect boundaries.