You didn’t ask him outright, so it was all his decision. Stay toxic <3 #youdidnothingwrong
I support this.
Jk you didn’t tell us why you don't want him to go. If it’s valid, then it’s reasonable. If it’s not a good enough reason, then you can do one of three things:
Ask him politely and let him decide
Let him go alone
Go with him
It depends...If you know what type of person he is, then it's a valid reason why you're asking for that boundary.
Why not go with him instead?
It’s not my scene, I don’t like the music or rave culture.
It doesn’t align with my values
Not letting your bf go to a rave. He got the hint when I asked him the second time if he was going