Honestly.. it’s bc of people like lamy who DO fetishize bl/yaoi. She openly enjoys reading about men being assaulted and the way she does it comes off as fetishization. I hate that people like her are affecting the whole community but those fudanshi are valid in their feelings. However, it is NOT OKAY to generalize the whole of Fujos. If people would just stick to reading.. this wouldn’t be a problem honestly.

Recently, there has been a lot of talk on TikTok about fellow BL content creators having sex and the problem has become more widespread. Actually, I'm annoyed with those who create a lot of drama and create division, especially as readers. Like adult fujoshi it is not appropriate to read bl or yaoi anymore, even though many of them are minors.
What I know is that the problem started from there, but instead it created a competition like seniority which is disgusting. I even found people who like Zenya without reading the manhwa. Plus, this male content creator is also too dramatic for me, as if he is inviting his followers to hate "girls who read bl/but that's a fetish" Even though that also includes fujoshi, like i know u gay but u also fudanshi. It's as if fujoshi are branded as fetishizers of queer people. As long as it's not homophobic, it's fine