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if you're in a shitty mood, don't read this one

Trashi August 21, 2026 9:36 pm

Yeah no, the life's shitty enough for me to read how japanese authors romanticize abusive relationships.

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    donttalktome August 21, 2026 9:53 pm

    Seriously, the only thing that makes these worth reading is if the abuser gets to really actually suffer from the consequences of their decisions. If they don't have a redemption arc, what the fuck is the point.

    Trashi August 21, 2026 10:33 pm
    Seriously, the only thing that makes these worth reading is if the abuser gets to really actually suffer from the consequences of their decisions. If they don't have a redemption arc, what the fuck is the point... donttalktome

    For real, either understand your mistakes and repent or do not show hour face

    Dw50963 August 22, 2026 5:33 am

    no way this is hot as hell, + sometimes the abuser wins, without any forn of redemption, there’s nothing wrong with illustrating a darker story touching upon that topic

    venus August 23, 2026 12:28 am

    when the psychological tagged yaoi is psychological:

    IShowFinance August 23, 2026 9:38 am

    y'all gotta learn to read the tags no shade

    Trashi August 23, 2026 9:40 am
    when the psychological tagged yaoi is psychological: venus

    When the person comments their opinion in the COMMENT section (not review):

    Fuku33 August 23, 2026 3:38 pm

    Hah? Japanese author? As if BL manhwa did not romanticize abusive relationship and grape. Were you just born yesterday?

    TheSecretDragon August 23, 2026 3:39 pm

    Same this really isn't for me

    donttalktome August 23, 2026 10:37 pm
    when the psychological tagged yaoi is psychological: venus

    Psychological does not mean a frustrating fucking downer lmao

    venus August 24, 2026 2:09 am
    When the person comments their opinion in the COMMENT section (not review): Trashi

    yall comment the same shit on every psychological or abusive yaoi, like is it that shocking when the rape tagged yaoi has rape and not flowers and rainbows

    donttalktome August 24, 2026 11:44 am
    yall comment the same shit on every psychological or abusive yaoi, like is it that shocking when the rape tagged yaoi has rape and not flowers and rainbows venus

    You're being deliberately obtuse and you know it. Most of the people like noncon just fine. But there's a difference between tasteful or meaningful moments of intense tension... and rape after rape after humiliation after degredation, with nothing to show for it at the end. It's miserable to read. I get that you want to feel like everyone is too woke, or too sensitive, but man. It's just not a good time lol. And it's okay if other people find something that has zero emotional release frustrating and unsatisfying. Tension is only good when there is relief. In musical terms, dissonance must have resolution to be sonically pleasing. You can sit on your high horse all you want, but it doesn't make you right or your opinion worth more than anyone else's.

    Trashi August 24, 2026 3:19 pm
    Hah? Japanese author? As if BL manhwa did not romanticize abusive relationship and grape. Were you just born yesterday? Fuku33

    This is a manga, that's why I said japanese... Cause manga is japanese... Like my beb, tf are you stirring? I'm not saying manhwa is better...

    Trashi August 24, 2026 3:20 pm
    yall comment the same shit on every psychological or abusive yaoi, like is it that shocking when the rape tagged yaoi has rape and not flowers and rainbows venus

    And? What does it change if I comment the same shit on every manga? It's still my opinion? If you don't like my opinion - ignore it ???

    venus August 25, 2026 1:42 am
    You're being deliberately obtuse and you know it. Most of the people like noncon just fine. But there's a difference between tasteful or meaningful moments of intense tension... and rape after rape after humili... donttalktome

    nobody said anything about moral superiority, people read what they like, what seems unrealistic for you and realistic for someone else. especially in a two volume manga where development is short as it is, relationships arent linear. not all endings are supposed to satisfy you especially with a bl manga that starts with rape and then revenge rape, the basis of their relationship was already terrible which is why it got worse and than it marginally got "better" for its standards at the end.. what i mean to say is it seems trivial to complain about rape or abuse in a manga thats literally built upon both of those subjects in a way that doesnt have a morally satisfying arc or conclusion. rape is more about domination and humiliation than sexual gratification, which is why the ML rapes the MC in revenge and then proceeds to also dominate and humiliate him in his workplace as well.

    venus August 25, 2026 1:54 am
    nobody said anything about moral superiority, people read what they like, what seems unrealistic for you and realistic for someone else. especially in a two volume manga where development is short as it is, rel... venus

    i meant to add that it seems purposeful by the author that it was written this way, you can take it as romanticization plenty of BL is like this. the entire manga is about subverting the original attacker and the attacked dynamic the characters have at the start. about the victim attempting to "reclaim" their autonomy and subsequent rejection but ultimately still not being satisfied. ive never read a manga like it and i PERSONALLY thought it was interesting, regardless if i thought it was healthy or touched on such a complex conversations correctly, so i find it annoying when people sum experimental bl or manga in general like this as just "japanese authors romanticize abusive relationships."