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Right? People should just get with someone they are compatible with and not change themselves to fit someone elses desires. Im a girl but my ex always thought of me as more dominant and wanted me to take lead. In all honesty i wasnt comfortable doing that and instead wanted to be taken care of. We were just incompatible

i pity submissive men who want to be gentle and kind to their partners but are pushed to do things they don't actually want to do. Submissive ppl unfortunately fall for manipulators unconsciously, which makes it all a lot more pitiful. Men are affected negatively by the patriarchy if they don't follow the very strict standards set by others of what an "ideal manly man" should be. Jay's story is so common and sad. Hope we get to see him with a responsible dominant woman