Who tf wants to date a nonchalant mf who doesn't even care about breaking up bffr
Exactly
You wouldn’t know how he’d take breaking up if you’d actually TALK. COMMUNICATE!!!! Communication really is nonexistent in these stories. Me personally? I wouldn’t care if my partner was nonchalant if I’d TALK and LEARN about how he feels without jumping to conclusions and ending things without even trying. They’ve only been together for a year. Just tell me you don’t understand relationships or how other people process emotions. “Toxic nonchalant” personality meanwhile some of us act like this because we genuinely cannot process or express emotion like everyone else. You can be in a healthy relationship with someone who’s bad at expressing emotion. Why? Because there are different ways to show affection!!!!! Physical contact, gift giving, quality time. It doesn’t need to be words of affirmation or jealousy. I’d let my partner go have fun, I’d spend time with them, but I’m someone who struggles with saying “I love you”. I’ve had partners who were the same. The key is trust, talking to each other, and understanding one another. Expecting someone to act a certain way to fit your own standards is toxic and selfish. Same as being overly jealous and overprotective. I genuinely need both of you to understand how selfish and immature this MC is when it comes to his idea of how his partner, a whole other human being, should act for him. Especially without even talking to him or asking him to be more expressive.
All this about communication when ML never tried to
MC pisses me off sooo bad. Genuinely, who breaks up without 1. trying to get evidence and 2. TALKING !??? Bro didn’t even give the guy a chance and doesn’t even bother trying to hear him out. Slop story