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It's funny how people are victim-blaming the ML as if he didn't grow up exactly the way a ...

Silla August 23, 2026 3:16 am

It's funny how people are victim-blaming the ML as if he didn't grow up exactly the way a traumatized child and victim of abuse might. Call me misogynistic or whatever the fuck you want, but Kiho was the only victim in this story and deserves better.
I bet if everything that happened to Kiho had been reversed and the FL were in his place, people would absolutely hate him for treating her the way she treated him. Suddenly, everyone would become master analysts, writing and talking about her trauma and explaining how her childhood shaped her behavior. But because it's a guy who was the victim of abuse, he's still being blamed for the way his trauma affected him. Lol, I can't with this hypocritical double standard

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    Juh Dias August 23, 2026 4:12 pm

    Agree, 100%. The bullying got to a point that his parents didn't believe him and they divorced each other. And his best friend that was supposed to be FL didn't even try to hear him out, she also didn't notice that the person bullying him was the same as she started dating.

    Silla August 23, 2026 7:37 pm
    Agree, 100%. The bullying got to a point that his parents didn't believe him and they divorced each other. And his best friend that was supposed to be FL didn't even try to hear him out, she also didn't notice ... Juh Dias

    Correct! All these female defenders wouldn’t be saying all this trash about him or pointing fingers at him if what happened to Kiho had happened to the FL instead. I’ve seen people hate MLs for doing far less than how the FL treated him. She easily believed his bullies over him and even joined them in talking shit about him and insulting him.
    But people still want to pretend and make the FL seem like the victim, and now they’re even calling him a rapist. Like, WTF? The double standards are insane

    Juh Dias August 23, 2026 8:14 pm

    Also the fact that they are calling people misogynist just because they disagree with them and not even been able to giving real reasons or arguments. She in some form participated in bullying him, she is a bully. When he was telling her the truth, she didn't want to hear it, just jump to think the worst about him and that he was disgusting. I actually was REALLY DISGUSTED BY HER specially in the end when they did the "wow look a this great childhood memories we had before I becoming part of your bullying group". Like you knew him sense kindergarten and didn't even gave him the benefit of the doubt. You didn't recognize your childhood best friend just because he got taller? After I read the comments I was even more shocked that people were defending the FL. Like I'm a woman but woman can be terrible people not just man, Man can be abused, bully, destroyed too. And the ML was the only victim in this whole story and like you said if the roles were reverse they would all be talking like how toxic it is but because is the man the victim they are victim blaming.

    Silla August 23, 2026 8:39 pm
    Also the fact that they are calling people misogynist just because they disagree with them and not even been able to giving real reasons or arguments. She in some form participated in bullying him, she is a bul... Juh Dias

    Everything is misogynistic these days to these brain-rotted readers who lack basic reading comprehension. I’m so used to that word as a woman myself. When I call out women for their shitty behavior, it’s about holding them responsible and accountable for their actions, not this ridiculous “women supporting women whether they’re right or wrong” propaganda they’re trying to push.
    I could never subscribe to such a disgusting mindset. Call me a misogynist; I genuinely don’t care. Kiho was wrong, and the FL played a part in it too. If they can’t handle those facts, that’s their problem. It’s really that simple

    Juh Dias August 24, 2026 3:07 am

    It's exactly that!!!!