How can the uke sense the love from the top when he would always add the words "It's just for the baby". I would also misunderstand that as him only doing those 'cause of the baby. Whenever the bottom feels like the top loves him, the top would always add those words making the Uke to suppress his feelings. It's not only the uke who's the problem, it's also the top. Both of them needs to communicate.
How can the uke sense the love from the top when he would always add the words "It's just for the baby". I would also misunderstand that as him only doing those 'cause of the baby. Whenever the bottom feels like the top loves him, the top would always add those words making the Uke to suppress his feelings. It's not only the uke who's the problem, it's also the top. Both of them needs to communicate.