Im starting to feel sorry for big bro.. ╥﹏╥ As the oldest child myself, I know how much pressure comes with being the eldest. Parents just dump all their hopes and expectations on you, sometimes with pressure that can even turn violent. But then they’ll be like, “I raised you!!” while constantly pressuring you and getting disappointed when you don’t meet their expectations. Like… when did they ever give us the reassurance needed to become the person they expect us to be?
Im starting to feel sorry for big bro.. ╥﹏╥ As the oldest child myself, I know how much pressure comes with being the eldest. Parents just dump all their hopes and expectations on you, sometimes with pressure that can even turn violent.
But then they’ll be like, “I raised you!!” while constantly pressuring you and getting disappointed when you don’t meet their expectations. Like… when did they ever give us the reassurance needed to become the person they expect us to be?