just need to say. there's this phenomenon where our empathy, as it does, assumes the position of other's situation (like in here for example) and that's all good and well-intended but it can get counterproductive when the same person you're empathizing for becomes a collateral damage because you couldn't handle you're own feelings.
you're feeling bad for him but you bring no relief instead double down on it, it's a stupid self-centered notion. you're no hero and it's not about him, it's about you and you're incapability to face uncertainty. this made me so mad and I've been needing an outlet so here i am.
just need to say. there's this phenomenon where our empathy, as it does, assumes the position of other's situation (like in here for example) and that's all good and well-intended but it can get counterproductive when the same person you're empathizing for becomes a collateral damage because you couldn't handle you're own feelings.
you're feeling bad for him but you bring no relief instead double down on it, it's a stupid self-centered notion. you're no hero and it's not about him, it's about you and you're incapability to face uncertainty. this made me so mad and I've been needing an outlet so here i am.