communication can’t solve everything

i am reading through the comments and some people are saying he should have sat with his decision longer (he did he’s been thinking about it since they started it’s literally all he has thought about) and people being like they should have communicated better i genuinely think they communicated as much as they could like there’s was inherent understanding but also he literally said it and i need for ppl to stop thinking that communication is a heal all like you can communicate until your tongue blisters but that’s not necessarily gonna help he was told by his mom that she wishes he was never born from the glimpses of his life you can tell he’s been along for a long long time and he’s used to either being chosen/prioritised last or not being chosen at all or being left and dropped that’s a feeling he’s carried since he was way young and i’m sorry but someone loving you isn’t going to make that feeling go away like especially when they are on such different paths in life and when the differences between their upbringing and what their futures are going to look like, his low self esteem his lack of assurance in life like this guys is depressed man no communication is making that go away and even if he made a decision he was gonna regret it was the EASIEST decision because it’s easier to run away and not upkeep relationships than it is to fight for smth you want like idk i think them breaking up makes the most sense especially since he was so lackluster about the relationship to begin with he had a very much let’s see where this goes i can walk away anytime attitude from the beginning he literally said this is very warm and comfortable i wanna feel this for a bit longer (paraphrasing) idk man