I'm not trying be a smartass to point out the obvious, but from the beginning seme had one foot out the boat, no true feelings involved, thinking it was much more hassle free than with a women. The need for control mustve changed for seme during their stay together due to ukes innocence and perseverance. But seme has always been domineering and commanding, he wants to dictate ukes life for him

Now he feels like the crazy man from love history caused by wilful negligence except no one warned us that he was this crazy. I feel betrayed