I personally cannot take someone serious if they claim to be in love but are sleeping around, and that’s because I personally won’t even consider sleeping with someone unless there’s feelings, but we are all different and I understand there are many others in this world that don’t feel the way I do, so I have to accept he has had past relations whilst claiming to be in love. What I have a problem with is that he hid the fact that he had been in a sexual relationship with blue all that time, not only that but he’s his first and they had been practically in a relationship right up to MC seeing them kissing. Even I felt blindsided by it because the ML minimized the kiss, it seemed like he was just messing around but instead there was more to it. I thought ML had multiple one night stands, but instead he’s been with blue the whole time. Now I understand why he refused to give him a goodnight kiss too, he was drawing a line that they are not like that anymore, but because I hadn’t caught on they were in that type of relationship I thought he was just maintaining boundaries to show sincerity to MC, I didn’t realize the significance of it. Then we find ML was still meeting up with blue without MC knowing, and their interaction looked suspicious enough between the two that the friend caught on straight away that there was more between them than friendship. The MC not being comfortable about the blue anymore is completely understandable. I feel bad for Blue though because none of it is his fault. ML should have been honest from the beginning.
I personally cannot take someone serious if they claim to be in love but are sleeping around, and that’s because I personally won’t even consider sleeping with someone unless there’s feelings, but we are all different and I understand there are many others in this world that don’t feel the way I do, so I have to accept he has had past relations whilst claiming to be in love. What I have a problem with is that he hid the fact that he had been in a sexual relationship with blue all that time, not only that but he’s his first and they had been practically in a relationship right up to MC seeing them kissing. Even I felt blindsided by it because the ML minimized the kiss, it seemed like he was just messing around but instead there was more to it. I thought ML had multiple one night stands, but instead he’s been with blue the whole time. Now I understand why he refused to give him a goodnight kiss too, he was drawing a line that they are not like that anymore, but because I hadn’t caught on they were in that type of relationship I thought he was just maintaining boundaries to show sincerity to MC, I didn’t realize the significance of it. Then we find ML was still meeting up with blue without MC knowing, and their interaction looked suspicious enough between the two that the friend caught on straight away that there was more between them than friendship. The MC not being comfortable about the blue anymore is completely understandable. I feel bad for Blue though because none of it is his fault. ML should have been honest from the beginning.