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flwer_angel August 28, 2026 11:56 am

Hmmm so I'm actually a high school girl and I'm kinda obsessed with the yaoi manga and because of that my grades are literally dropping from average to zero and this year is kinda serious cause my (see) exam is coming soon like if you don't know (see) exam is just like those Chinese gakao exam and I been reading manga too much instead of studying all the teachers have decided that I'm not gonna give ts big exam cause if I were to fail then the school reputation ヽ(`Д´)ノwill go down and I just don't know what to do at ts point like I don't know anything about math,biology,or whatever subject and like I literally don't know anything and whenever I try to study it I just can't seem to understand it I mean it make sense cause I would literally be on my imagination while the teachers are teachers and because of that I guess I might don't know like 5-6 years knowledge soooo I'm cooked as hell ugh ts post might be ignored but still I hope someone can give suggestions about what should I dooo

Responses
    Mojooo August 28, 2026 12:05 pm

    Take a break from yaoi. Try harder to do better at school and get a good job, so in the future you'll be secure enough to enjoy all the yaoi you want. Btw ts is short for "this shit", not "this"

    Lily_Chan August 28, 2026 12:26 pm

    Girl if you dropped out form school you wont be able to read more yaoi. So do better, make yaoi your inspiration not the reason why you are failing. Think of this if you fail, you wont be able have a free time for more yaoi because you need to catch up more and if you dont have free time you wont be able to read more yaoi. So better work hard (I am just saying this to my old self)

    Tulsi pata August 28, 2026 12:28 pm

    Girly throw your phone anyway, don't touch unless it's absolutely necessary. Listen to the teachers even if it feels boring. If you don't understand anything maybe tell your parents to get you a tutor so that you can at least pass the exam. You need to set a goal for every day that you will finish this topic today no matter what. You might not be able to finish it every time but it's okay. It's fine even if you finish 70%. Set a 5 second rule. Whenever you realize you are getting distracted, change to a different position in 5 seconds. You need a specific place for studying. NEVER study in bed and you should never fall asleep on your sleep desk. If you feel sleepy then go to bed and if you want to focus sit at your desk. If you are still can't focus and keep thinking about stuff then take a piece of sheet and write down your thoughts then go back to studying. Don't give up, you can always read yaoi later. If you have a few months then it is enough time to prepare for it.

    Elio August 28, 2026 12:47 pm

    You already know what you should do .
    Quit reading for some months . If you fail this exam , you are gonna get treated like a failure by your teachers and parents. Regrets will never leave you alone . Your prefinals are closer than your finals , start working now . After exams you can read freely. Think about how enjoyable it would be to read your favourite yaois when many new chapters are there . Your neighbourhood is gonna hear about your failure and laugh about it too . Think wisely , Not reading for 6-7 months or failing and regretting for life .

    Elio August 28, 2026 12:52 pm

    Remember one thing , no matter how many times you ask for suggestions , or how many times you convince yourself that you will do it tomorrow, tomorrow.
    Know that TOMORROW never comes.
    Nothing is gonna change till you take action yourself or want to change yourself. Whenever you think about loosing yourself to yaoi or wasting your time , think about all your classmates succeeding and joining big colleges and you will remain as a loser behind still retaking that same exam . The shame that comes at that time , think about that .

    Mizukich August 28, 2026 1:33 pm

    Download Gizmo or any other learning app, use those and set a timer.

    For math, start with the basics(multiplication,division, percentage, fractions and etc..) since that will be your foundation.

    If available, check out the coverages of the exam.