Babe you can't just say that mok is acting for manipulation. Thats really rude considering depression is happening real time. Imo he's genuinely ATM. You can say that he doesn't deserve a second chance but you can't just invalidate his feelings because you don't agree w him. Not defending him, just triggered as someone who got their depression invalidated.
Lol he literally said in his own internal monologue that he wanted to leave Nanjo with a lifelong impression so he’d never forget him, by dying. Like if that isn’t manipulation, then what exactly is?? And again, in this chapter Nanjo literally tells him not to manipulate him by using death. So no, this isn’t my “fictional headcanon” or me making shit up. It literally happened on the page, in his own internal monologue. So calling that manipulative isn't me “invalidating” his depression or making up some headcanon.
You can be genuinely depressed and still use your death to make someone feel guilty or emotionally responsible for you. Those things aren't mutually exclusive.
Threathning to kill ypurself and getting into accident cause nanjo would appear that seems pretty manipulative
Its not like people in depression cant be manipulative
And its not invalidating his feelings cause other readers are hating nanjo just for making mok cry not understanding the story from nanjo pov
Saying from past relationship where i would get these threats pretty often
And its not like nanjo is his therapist its not his duty to cure ml what he needs is actually therapy
Plus are we forgetting ml literally forced mc to have sex with him using blackmail
No I understand it from Nanjo pov thats why I don't care if he doesn't forgive him but that's beside the point cus saying he's suicidal tendencies is only for an act is itself disregarding his feelings and what he's going through. He did it once without Nanjo awareness and he hasn't mentioned it so it's clearly not an act for him.
And there were people who were screaming that Nanjo “doesn’t deserve him” just because he removed him from his building after literally telling him not to see him again. Like?? We got Mok’s POV for basically the whole season, saw him cutting himself, being depressed and suffering, so obviously people became super sympathetic toward him, while we barely got Nanjo’s POV at all.
Then somehow Nanjo gets painted as this evil heartless person for… respecting his own boundaries and telling someone who repeatedly crossed them to stay away?? Be so fucking fr. You can sympathize with Mok’s pain without acting like Nanjo is automatically the villain. The lack of Nanjo’s POV clearly affected how people interpreted the entire situation.
Fr did y’all see then now Nanjo haters ? The irony is actually sending me because most MLs wouldn’t listen to a single word their bottom says when there’s a conflict. They’ll refuse to communicate, misunderstand everything, distrust the bottom, and then just go straight to sex like that’s somehow gonna fix the problem
And now Nanjo is actually sitting down and having a conversation and trying to understand what’s going on and he knows he literally trying to manipulate him by suicide and pls don't try to baby mok he is a fully grown adult but he can't go around make people guilty for his life