Its not. We want him to get his shits together and not manipulate the uke. It wouldve been better for him to cry more until he realized that threatening to off himself isnt a way to get nanjo but be a better person w a better mindset that is worthy of being a partner. Nanjo seems to be a secured guy with no hate inside him considering that he treats the mc like a decent normal being despite everything that was done to him and being forced to be a bottom to protect someone you like.
that is in no way a type of accountability at all. he deals with his mistakes by making a pity party of himself instead of making things better. it's clearly bc of his upbringing hence we got his backstory after what happened. if it weren't for that, there'd be no justification for his action. still it's not enough to be easily forgiven and that's what he has to understand. ik ppl are sensitive abt self h arm but we have to understand the entire situation leading to that. atp he's convincing himself that he's not manipulating the uke but why else would u tell someone they're the reason u comitted and in able for u not to do that again, they have to be with them??? hwang needs to figure out another way to win nanjo over.

i need him to cry more for the next 10 chaps bc these ain't enough for everything he did < 3