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Be clear human
Ig im too, finish the idea girl
What need you good fellow human?
Idk what to choose… my dreams or my family? I’m honestly so confused. I’m in my 20s and my working life is about to begin. My parents want me to work, but they don’t want me to go far away. But deep down, I want to follow my dreams and work outside my state, maybe even outside my country coz that's what the job is all about. I don’t want to lose my family, but I also don’t want to give up on the life I’ve always dreamed of. I’m scared of choosing wrong and regretting it later.
Yk it's so hard to be clear when your heart says one thing and your brain another....
About what are you confused??
Will you grant me a wish if I tell you? (༎ ෴ ༎)
Choose your dream human, ain't no way your parents gonna make your dream come true but yourself. If you'll choose your family happiness to stay at your own city and work then what's the point about your dream. In few years, you'll be sitting in your office chair, typing in keyboard the same files again and again and listening to your colleagues talk about their promotion and how they will be going abroad and will be working from there for the company and you'll be there faking a smile and saying congratulations cause deep down you wished it was you, that shit was made for you but you didn't choose it cause you choose your family happiness rather then your own. How instead of standing up by yourself, you choose to say "Fine. It's okay I'll work here." to your parents cause that's how you've always been, to please them cause you know deep down you'll be feeling guilty if you say No because it's your parents who raised you and denying them will only hurt them and you and this will be eating you all the damn time. But not choosing your dream Job will be making you more regret then your family denying you. It's your life. Do what you want. But letting other still control your life and what to do then it's better you never dream about anything anymore. If you can't be free then stay at the cage they built for you. But let me tell you once again, human, that it's your life. You have every rights to do what you want and yes sometimes things may not go what you expected but atleast you will experience something. Fight for yourself that's all.
Ignore the damn shit. Heart work is to beat while brain work is to collect information and all the work it does. It's not stopping you to choose your dream job, it's YOU, who is doing that. Better fight for it or rather accepts the cage.
Hmmm, it depends. What do you have to offer, fellow human?
idk if any consolation - imma early 20s human who moved to a city ive never been to before 2 hr drive from my home town i live work n study here thank god my company its a retail job lemme transfer locations still chasing dreams in my own way n crashing out tryna job hunt with graduation coming up
but choose ur dream, n start lil bit by lil may be start with someone close show the parents ull be fine money and stability talk once they see it roll in theyll belive then keep traveling further lengthen ur distance till ur out a country ik ive seen a bunch of ppl visiting a country for work conferences may be u can use something like that u can choose both but plan wisely n dont give up dreams everyones scared of choosing wrong thing n regretting it (opportunity cost) thats y u plan n see n may be get fam involved in planning togethr for ur dream n they can come to undersrand...? whar e they scared about?
They'll not accept it ever if I do what I dreamt of..and to make it come true I have to leave my home forever..no coming back after that .. that's the problem for what I'm thinking my hole life till now and also the job is a bit risky coz they say sexual harrasment is quite normal in that profession according to women work in that field it's (60/40) ...it's really hard to decide..what should I do in this matter??
Some peace…
It’s really chaotic in here
Hmm that’s what I was thinking too. I’ll start with something nearby for now, and then slowly work my way towards my actual dream job..hope it works
My prayers to you human. Not to get your dream or anything, just sending you prayers. That's all.
they'll need them
Oh this human probably need it
ya i do plz send a a high pay low stress closse location job my way ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Sure. I'll tell the god, idk if he listens to me cause he has never listen but I do hope the prayers comes to I cause it never came to me.
Can any experienced person can help me in this plz ??