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Kkkk September 3, 2026 8:33 am

I want to stop reading bl. It’s half porno let’s accept it and it’s really effecting my brain. But I love bl so much, the plot is so good and there are so many good stories I look forward to reading every week. But atp I’m using it as an escape from my stressful life, I stay in, skip dates, reject men and just read bl. It’s peaceful for me but I can’t keep this up. Also I’m turning 25 next year, I’ve spent half my life on bl, I want to move on. What should I do. I delete an account and come back after making a new one.

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    Kkkk September 3, 2026 8:37 am

    I want to know what happens in bad apple, happy together. I want to keep up when diamond dust and blossoms of the night return but I ALSO DONT WANT TO! Why can’t I just have normal hobbies like idk skateboarding ????? I thought I’d outgrow it but I JUST NEVER DO

    Okami07 September 3, 2026 8:45 am

    Girl, I'm pretty much the same as you

    ChibiChii September 3, 2026 8:50 am

    find a new hobby to indulge in?

    CherryPlump September 3, 2026 8:52 am

    this is so real..

    Kkkk September 3, 2026 8:57 am
    find a new hobby to indulge in? ChibiChii

    Trust me , I’ve tried. I’ve tried to get into sitcoms, but I end up on gmmtv or some Thai bl

    MommyMilkers September 3, 2026 8:59 am

    I’m also the same age as you and have no clue when I’ll ever stop, it’s lowkey scary to think abt

    Raralora September 3, 2026 9:06 am

    Uno what i did to stop. Deleted my acc cuz ik my lazy ass wont go back to look for the 1500 bls i read and i stopped right im only reading isekai and oother non smut reads cit helped me

    Delyn September 3, 2026 9:09 am

    To start with, you could try being more strict with yourself, without cutting yourself off entirely? Dedicate only a certain timeframe or specific days for reading, and refuse to read outside of those parameters. That way, you have more time for other things and can prolong the reading so it doesn’t abuse and obliterate your dopamine supply.

    bigballs2000 September 3, 2026 9:10 am

    i feel like a chud bc my genuine main hobby is bl webnovels all i do is ever read webnovels