If I was in his position, I would've ended this relationship. Its so suffocating not being able to enjoy those little things because of my own personal emotions involved and I can tell he's getting in too deep. Although the seme also likes him, he's not going to commit so I would've stepped away. It'd be too much for me. I truly feel for the uke in all honesty but he is doing it to himself at the end of the day.
If I was in his position, I would've ended this relationship. Its so suffocating not being able to enjoy those little things because of my own personal emotions involved and I can tell he's getting in too deep. Although the seme also likes him, he's not going to commit so I would've stepped away. It'd be too much for me. I truly feel for the uke in all honesty but he is doing it to himself at the end of the day.