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Self betterment

Bonnetwearer5670 September 6, 2026 8:21 am

Why don't people like me. It's so hard to make friends and 2 people have recently quit the job because of me. I've asked them what makes them so angry to work with me, or just be around me in general, but I never get a response. I'm always ignored or talked bad about, and sometimes I understand. Im not good looking and words come hard for me, but I'm not evil:((((

I really just want to become more likable, all the youtbe videos seem to say the same thing, but they are all ai so I want to hear a human

Responses
    Read_lotmorv September 6, 2026 8:33 am

    First of all if you are a respectful person and a good listener then people quitting isn’t because you’re evil sometimes people will dislike you for no reason. That’s just how it is no matter what you do. So don’t start changing yourself or your appearance to fit in

    Of course if you have flaws then work on them. Not saying you can erase flaws but finding methods to manage it would be great as for appearance as long as you groom yourself well and take care of your hygiene then that’s about it

    Don’t assume you’re the problem in this of course idk you maybe you did something but if you asked and you weren’t told then you just move on. Don’t think about wanting to be accepted you will find people who do and if you don’t at least you aren’t lying to yourself about who you are. If you’re different that’s just that. If we all fixed ourselves for the sake of others and not for our selves then we’re living in a fake world. So don’t beat yourself up. I’m sure you’re a kind and beautiful person so please for your sake do not think of how others perceive you and live your life. As for how to make friends I have 0 idea but somehow you’ll be able to if you let go of fear and anxiousness and take the uncomfortable step forward. Easier said than done but that’s the harsh reality. Know this though never put yourself down and assume you’re the odd one out.


    Also I’m sleep deprived so if I misunderstood the question well …. just ignore this heh