This is advice from someone who went through something familiar to a person similar to Haeyul. When you encounter someone that says you are perfect, that they wouldn't like you to hang out with someone; they would do something in exchange for your time and for your love; or they bite you, kiss you or hug you without consent; or they want to desperately and forcefully get your attention like Haeyul did to Jaewon, do not and I sincerely repeat: do not go along with things, do not accept things, do not leave with them, you draw a line, and run. In this story the MC is too kind, and such a good person that he didnt immediately kick out a guy who he clearly saw that he had broken in. He didnt tell him where he lived and he didnt invite him before.
I know its for the purpose of the book but, do not think "I need this so I will do what they ask" or "I am going to be nice this once", or "Yeah its a nice distraction " because they will not leave you alone.
I know some will say "but there is such a thing as being nice and cordial": you know what I would rather people see me as a fucking bitch that bites and is an asshole than have an asshole stalker. And I know some other would say "but its his job, its his money" and let me say no money is worth your safety, because those things escalate and they get worse, and its better to look for another job, another person to tutor, etc. than have your safety compromised
Now that asshole is a stalker because he did enter his home without consent, but it seems that their last teacher, Yesung was also a grooming asshole. And people can say its normal or what not, but at 22 you do not ask a 15 year old to be your friend and spend all of the time with him, you dont ask him to disconnect you from life support (basically he js asking a kid to kill him as a favor), and you do not ask to meet them outside work without their parents consent. A pedophile or a groomer does not have an age restriction, they can be 22, and this asshole is a groomer. People can say that they where friends and they never went further but they clearly are because Doonin said so himself, the tests where far away and there was no reason that Yaesung had to ask to meet a 15 year old in private for "work". It was his first time not going and he did it with the his parents permission, he could have called his parents.
This is advice from someone who went through something familiar to a person similar to Haeyul. When you encounter someone that says you are perfect, that they wouldn't like you to hang out with someone; they would do something in exchange for your time and for your love; or they bite you, kiss you or hug you without consent; or they want to desperately and forcefully get your attention like Haeyul did to Jaewon, do not and I sincerely repeat: do not go along with things, do not accept things, do not leave with them, you draw a line, and run. In this story the MC is too kind, and such a good person that he didnt immediately kick out a guy who he clearly saw that he had broken in. He didnt tell him where he lived and he didnt invite him before.
I know its for the purpose of the book but, do not think "I need this so I will do what they ask" or "I am going to be nice this once", or "Yeah its a nice distraction " because they will not leave you alone.
I know some will say "but there is such a thing as being nice and cordial": you know what I would rather people see me as a fucking bitch that bites and is an asshole than have an asshole stalker. And I know some other would say "but its his job, its his money" and let me say no money is worth your safety, because those things escalate and they get worse, and its better to look for another job, another person to tutor, etc. than have your safety compromised
Now that asshole is a stalker because he did enter his home without consent, but it seems that their last teacher, Yesung was also a grooming asshole. And people can say its normal or what not, but at 22 you do not ask a 15 year old to be your friend and spend all of the time with him, you dont ask him to disconnect you from life support (basically he js asking a kid to kill him as a favor), and you do not ask to meet them outside work without their parents consent. A pedophile or a groomer does not have an age restriction, they can be 22, and this asshole is a groomer. People can say that they where friends and they never went further but they clearly are because Doonin said so himself, the tests where far away and there was no reason that Yaesung had to ask to meet a 15 year old in private for "work". It was his first time not going and he did it with the his parents permission, he could have called his parents.