First things first: I liked this story I would like to read more. But there are problems about the BDSM if someone is interested in knowing: - The guy being all "damn I'm a masochist now because I like being bound" that's bullshit. He is a submissive but not a masochist. It's not the pain he gets off on, it's the situation and not being in control. Masochist and submissive are very different things and you can be one without the other. It may be possible he is also a masochist but there is no evidence of that in this manga. - They didn't have a safe word, not with the girl they were practicing on, nor with each other. They only talk about having one at the end. That's not safe! Always choose your safe word before starting any scene and have a non verbal one in case the sub can't talk. - BDSM is such a complex world, I can see why someone may be confused. I'm wondering if it was a translation problem or if the confusion between S and M and Sub and Dom was there in the original also.
First things first: I liked this story I would like to read more.
But there are problems about the BDSM if someone is interested in knowing:
- The guy being all "damn I'm a masochist now because I like being bound" that's bullshit. He is a submissive but not a masochist. It's not the pain he gets off on, it's the situation and not being in control. Masochist and submissive are very different things and you can be one without the other. It may be possible he is also a masochist but there is no evidence of that in this manga.
- They didn't have a safe word, not with the girl they were practicing on, nor with each other. They only talk about having one at the end. That's not safe! Always choose your safe word before starting any scene and have a non verbal one in case the sub can't talk.
- BDSM is such a complex world, I can see why someone may be confused. I'm wondering if it was a translation problem or if the confusion between S and M and Sub and Dom was there in the original also.