He did own up to his mistakes and wrongdoings, he apologized sincerely and even confessed his true feelings, albeit while drunk. He's not threatening sht, just rambling like most do when feeling too embarrassed and/or overwhelmed. Have u never seen someone love passionately and falling in despair after the break up? How are some of u not understanding the cause and effect of his behavior? It's not about mental illness, it's about an immature when it comes to love, guarded and scared of abandonment young adult who navigates love and wants to possess something for the first time. He goes to extremes with every action he takes bcuz that's how fiercely he's loving. Stop thinking that everything is a mental illness that needs to be labeled and treated. Most ppl live and act on the gray line anyway
The bar is in absolute hell. After doing all that crying, he goes back to jumping his bones at the first chance he could get, as if he didn't learn a single thing. But of course, he could cry pretty tears, confess that's he's only done all of that because he's madly in love with, and everything is just fine. Wow, men have it so easy.
And u're projecting...yeah, they have it easy bcuz both of them are indeed men. The bottom isn't a woman, he's a full adult male who thinks of s*x like most do before anything else. Let's stop seeing bottoms as the woman in the relationship. S*x isn't that deep nor some wholly experience that needs to be kept guarded and treated like something special. Nanjo can feel aroused when seeing another man's naked body and a pitiful crying face and that's ok.
Ah yes they're both men so instead of actually having a much needed conversation, the obvious response is to get physical the moment there's an opportunity. Apparently being sexually attracted to someone means it's okay to automatically act on it, regardless of what the other person is going through emotionally. People really overlook writing just to see two men getting horny because it's only "normal". Basic definition of yaoislop, btw. Apparently it's too much to ask for decent witing nowadays.
Them having sex was never the problem, they're gonna do it anyways. My gripe is that the story had just spent all this time showing Mokyeon's trauma only to have him fall right back into the same pattern. How is it that you clearly understood the weight of what Mokyeon went through based on how you've written your first reply only to turn around and toss it out to say "it's okay they're both men, they get horny, sex shouldn't be glorified". Not to mention, they're not even together, so regardless of how sexually attracted Mokyeon is to Nanjo, touching him without his consent is still sexual assault. But yeah, that doesn't matter cause that ony applies to women I guess. You can't demand readers to understand the complexity of Mokyeon's character while simultaneously refusing to extend that same consideration to Nanjo.
Talking about some "he's a man, he'll be fine". And when I say the same thing about Mokyeon getting it easy cause he cried, I get called out for projecting on them. Yeah yeah yeah.
threatening to off yourself just because someone doesn't want to see your ass anymore?? crying and whining to get what he wants... yah fuck that. trauma can only explain a mistake, not excuse it. At some point you gotta grow the fuck up and own up to your actions and behavior and take accountability. but he's crying those crocodile tears and threatening self-harm instead. I hope Nanjo is stronger than ya'll!