Babeeeee this would be the time to say, "hey, so I think I offended you in a game chat before - I was trying to make a joke, but I've been a fan of yours for a long time so I was really awkward about it and I think it came across as making fun of you. I'm sorry about that, I didn't mean it that way and I hope we can be okay with each other."
I know he has a whoooooole lot of mental and emotional stuff going on that makes that seem impossible, but... damn.
Babeeeee this would be the time to say, "hey, so I think I offended you in a game chat before - I was trying to make a joke, but I've been a fan of yours for a long time so I was really awkward about it and I think it came across as making fun of you. I'm sorry about that, I didn't mean it that way and I hope we can be okay with each other."
I know he has a whoooooole lot of mental and emotional stuff going on that makes that seem impossible, but... damn.