Excuse the misunderstanding, just think about it IT WAS HIS ACTION that lead him to that situation but at the end of the day he didn't choose to get drugged and assaulted. And he himself is aware of it. Before you guys throw that "oh you're victim blaming" no as you can see MC is trying to take accountability and reflect on it cause he knows he fucked up. Also that's why I separated his experience to my ex by stating "on their case it was intentional" and I'm talking about my ex doing it to me intentionally. Cause I know the MC didn't do it intentionally, but still cheating is cheating. No need to gloss someone's action
Did you read up to chapter 21?
Honestly his intentions of even going to that bar and talking to that guy is wrong.
But idk if it's cheating when ml was the one to carry him to that hotel , then act like he's morally right and abused mc, and cross his bdsm boundaries.
Its good u sperated the experience from this tho.

I was in this type of relationship before, got cheated on as well but on their case it was intentional. Dumped them. Y'ALL THIS IS A MESS LMAO shii hardcore when it's irl