Imo femdom manga looks a lot more toxic and male-gaze bc the sweet and wholesome one are being shadowed by those, also there's not a lot of it in the first place (cmiiw) so it's hard to find one. I do have some mangas and manhwas i consider as wholesome and cute:
https://nhentai.net/group/toketa-ice-no-futa-no-ura/
https://nhentai.net/artist/usachanget/
https://nhentai.net/search?q=Raburi+Ah%21
https://nhentai.net/search?q=%E6%B3%A3%E8%99%AB%E3%83%84%E3%83%A8%E3%82%B7
https://nhentai.net/search?q=Mimimisan+Team
https://nhentai.net/g/477677/
https://nhentai.net/g/515854/ (sequel of the above)
https://nhentai.net/g/545873/
https://nhentai.net/g/520232/
https://nhentai.net/g/658723/ (sequel of the above)
https://nhentai.net/g/633954/
https://nhentai.net/g/421642/
https://nhentai.net/g/585934/
https://nhentai.net/g/655318/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/confidentiality_1/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/in_the_doghouse/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/have_your_way_with_me/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/strap_on_girl_and_bitch_boy/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/is_it_wrong_to_get_done_by_a_girl/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hardcore_vanilla/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/if_i_have_a_chance_i_want_to_warp_my_boyfriend_s_fetishes/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/otto_wa_shimakaze_kun_30_sai/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/narukawa_kun_doesn_t_want_to_be_made_to_cry/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shibatte_mitsumete/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oppabu_ttenandesuka_sutte_suwarete_hajimaru_koi_no_hanashi/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/book_x_tea_1/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kansai_dialect_panting_x_female_dominance_i_want_to_see_the_pathetic_face_of_the_cool_and_smart_hakozaki_kun/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hey_one_bite/uu/br_chapter-429637/pg-1/
Most are just straight up pwp but you can read whatever you want. I hope there's something up to your liking ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Also if you want more femdom i have a list here but it's a mix of toxic and wholesome (￣∇￣;) https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3771593/
Imo femdom manga looks a lot more toxic and male-gaze bc the sweet and wholesome one are being shadowed by those. Also there's not much of the wholesome one out there (cmiiw) so it's pretty hard to find. I do have some titles that i consider as wholesome and cute:
https://nhentai.net/group/toketa-ice-no-futa-no-ura/
https://nhentai.net/artist/usachanget/
https://nhentai.net/search?q=Raburi+Ah%21
https://nhentai.net/search?q=%E6%B3%A3%E8%99%AB%E3%83%84%E3%83%A8%E3%82%B7
https://nhentai.net/search?q=Mimimisan+Team
https://nhentai.net/g/477677/
https://nhentai.net/g/515854/ (sequel of the above)
https://nhentai.net/g/545873/
https://nhentai.net/g/520232/
https://nhentai.net/g/658723/ (sequel of the above)
https://nhentai.net/g/617581/
https://nhentai.net/g/633954/
https://nhentai.net/g/421642/
https://nhentai.net/g/655318/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/confidentiality_1/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/in_the_doghouse/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/have_your_way_with_me/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/strap_on_girl_and_bitch_boy/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/is_it_wrong_to_get_done_by_a_girl/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hardcore_vanilla/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/if_i_have_a_chance_i_want_to_warp_my_boyfriend_s_fetishes/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/otto_wa_shimakaze_kun_30_sai/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/narukawa_kun_doesn_t_want_to_be_made_to_cry/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shibatte_mitsumete/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oppabu_ttenandesuka_sutte_suwarete_hajimaru_koi_no_hanashi/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/book_x_tea_1/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kansai_dialect_panting_x_female_dominance_i_want_to_see_the_pathetic_face_of_the_cool_and_smart_hakozaki_kun/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/belle_pupp_e_s_engagement_the_doll_princess_and_the_smitten_prince/ (more like strong fl but they're so cute)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hey_one_bite/ (slave's come true)
Most are just straight up pwp but you can read whatever you want. I hope there's something up to your liking ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Also if you're interested in more femdom i have a whole list but it's a mix of toxic and wholesome (￣∇￣;) https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3771593/
Forgot to say the manhwa "hey, one bite" is multiple stories and the femdom one titled "slave's come true"
Also https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/belle_pupp_e_s_engagement_the_doll_princess_and_the_smitten_prince/ (not exactly femdom, more like strong fl but their dynamic is to die for fr)
Okay that's all, sorry it's so long:'D
Gosh I love the switch so much ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Kinda off topic but guys is it only my perspective that femdom is much more toxic in mangas?
(If you have some wholsome and cute femdom to recommend please share :3)