just wanna correct you there real quick. non-con or non-consensual is quite literally when none consent was given. you dont have to wait for the other person to say no for it to be non con. if no consent was given in the first place, it is non con. and mc was confronted right away for the indecent flashing meanwhile ml is just gonna get away with it, and thus will normalise this.
i understood the meaning of non con thanks to u .. but if MC wanted he could have confronted ML right then and there.. MC has his own kinks and he is pretty confortable with that ... no body forced him hurt him or anything... no body did anything MC didn't like ..sex doesnt always happen like .. can i have sex ? its about mood .. if MC is ok with it then everything is fine
okay i get you, MC is okay with it but the target audience, the readers that are mad, aren’t okay with it. if MC likes it okay good for him but the author still have to address the fact that non con somnophilia is not okay and should not be tolerated. ML confronting MC for being indecent despite being okay with it afterwards is what I want to see happen here. thsi is just gonna normalise non con in bl and then sooner or later it’s the gonna be the only thing we’ll ever see in bls cause it causes more reactions and tractions than consensual sex
so when MC indecently flashed himself in front of ML u all were cool with it ... when ML teased MC and put it in after asking its non con now? MC could have said no if he really was against it .. its not like ML would have continued... non con is when other said no but u still do it forcefully