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Somties it's allowed

Katyfaye September 18, 2026 1:49 am

In some relationships it's allowed to start while the other person is asleep. He didn't intend to fuck him he said he was only going to rub againts him but since he woke up he put it in. In my realationship, starting while I'm asleep is okay but it's a thing we prenegotiated very early in the relationship and it's under specific conditions. Basically if I go to sleep naked or in a night shirt or gown with no undies, it's okay. He's also allowed to adjust my PJs and use the visuals to get himself off, and can even get off on my body (but that usually wakes me up since it makes me cold).

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    bnj1412 September 18, 2026 1:55 am

    yes in IRL do get consent first from your partner(s) before. as long as you consent to it first its totally fine, this kinda leaned closer to red flag for sure but at least he waited until he woke up