I know some people struggle with a verbal “I love you”, or with verbalizing their emotions in general. And yes, heejae may not value saying it in words, he clearly prefers to show his love with acts of service. But, garam has specifically requested to hear it spoken that he is loved. If words of affirmation are your partner’s love language, you need to give them. We must bend for those we love, pride and discomfort be damned.
I know some people struggle with a verbal “I love you”, or with verbalizing their emotions in general. And yes, heejae may not value saying it in words, he clearly prefers to show his love with acts of service. But, garam has specifically requested to hear it spoken that he is loved. If words of affirmation are your partner’s love language, you need to give them. We must bend for those we love, pride and discomfort be damned.