The constant cycle of will he won't he, the refusal to leave because "he might change", the sadness that follows the highs when they do show signs of change but refuse to grow. Its emotional abuse and I feel bad for Garam.
They really do need time apart. Not only for Garam to explore who he is without Heejae, but for Heejae to realise just how much Garam is holding this relationship together. The way he talks to Garam is so reflective of who he thinks he is. At one point in the relationship, would you not consider your partner your equal? Heejae doesnt think so! When it matters (arguments), Heejae is the "professor" who is older and therefore more superior in position to Garam. This old man better change ffs.
The constant cycle of will he won't he, the refusal to leave because "he might change", the sadness that follows the highs when they do show signs of change but refuse to grow. Its emotional abuse and I feel bad for Garam.
They really do need time apart. Not only for Garam to explore who he is without Heejae, but for Heejae to realise just how much Garam is holding this relationship together. The way he talks to Garam is so reflective of who he thinks he is. At one point in the relationship, would you not consider your partner your equal? Heejae doesnt think so! When it matters (arguments), Heejae is the "professor" who is older and therefore more superior in position to Garam. This old man better change ffs.