this “i aM a bLaDe” stuff is getting really tiring and frustrating smh.
it’s obvious that, being in a relationship, you tend to be more considerate of your SO’s feelings, trauma, triggers, etc., because that bond means there’s a project that it’s being built by the people involved, a projection to grow together too. but, if one cares at all about the other person, simultaneously there needs to be individual growth too, if not for the sake of self-love, AT LEAST for the sake of the relationship, out of the love you have for the other.
ik it’s just fiction, but it still is amazing how deluded and self absorbed Heejae is. like, to the point he disregards the value, or the need for (really bare minimum) words of affirmation, even politeness, right after his partner asks him to say them multiple times. i truly cannot understand how someone can love like this.
this “i aM a bLaDe” stuff is getting really tiring and frustrating smh.
it’s obvious that, being in a relationship, you tend to be more considerate of your SO’s feelings, trauma, triggers, etc., because that bond means there’s a project that it’s being built by the people involved, a projection to grow together too. but, if one cares at all about the other person, simultaneously there needs to be individual growth too, if not for the sake of self-love, AT LEAST for the sake of the relationship, out of the love you have for the other.
ik it’s just fiction, but it still is amazing how deluded and self absorbed Heejae is. like, to the point he disregards the value, or the need for (really bare minimum) words of affirmation, even politeness, right after his partner asks him to say them multiple times. i truly cannot understand how someone can love like this.
dayum. i miss Kruger