I DO give a fuck! My situation was the same but now I'm trying to make my own path too, but it's hard, constantly needing to put limits (this actually took some years to be able to be where I am now), and ignore their wishes and start doing mines, it's hard!! Like, super hard, but I've never been so happy in years LOL I can't say I'm like, joyful right now because it's really hard, but I'm where my heart feels good, and that took an absurd amount of work, so I know you can do it too, it's just really hard to start, and scary, but I know you can do it too! Just do it slowly, at your own pace, and I'm sure you will get there
Op!!!! We do gaf!!!!!
I am also in the same position and trust me all of the dependency takes really long time to unlearn and break free. Some parents gen try hard to keep their kids with them, amd make it so they dont have their autonomy and individuality.
It takes a long way to cut off all of the dependency on parents but you just have to wiggle here and there and try to raise your own opinions. So take your time, no need to rush. Think it thru how you want to break free, where you want to break free from. I am literally trying my best here to cut off that dependencyand at nights it gives me nightmares and anxiety, its really difficult and a lot of past regrets on how im gonna do things. But the main point is taking the first small step towards that. I left the course my parents pushed me into, I am trying to find a new course, I cant do jobs, but im trying to find one that suits me. Its all so difficult but as I said its all in the first step.
We will do this op!! We will break thru this chain (*^o^)／＼(^-^*)
THANKS OMG, I've actually had given up my own dream of mine but it's nice to see other people happy with their own choices (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Proud of you for finally ignore their wishes and start doing yours!! maybe one day I'd finally let this go and choose my own path ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
KEEP UP WITH YOUR WORK!!
tbh i wish i were as brave as jinhyeong, but here i am standing on the path my parents wish. oh lord, i feel so relatable with him, it's just I'm a little worse version of him because i haven't got past trough my parents, I'm still leeching on them and walking on the path they choose... (lowk no one gaf abt my vent, but i felt so seen with Jinhyeong being 'rich' but struggling bcs no one ever understood :')